If you want to know how to win your ex back, the first piece of advice I can think of is not to send them text messages declaring your undying love. I know that technology has invaded our lives fiercely. We cannot seem to survive without our blackberries, Palm Pilots, etc. However, we should keep things in perspective and, personal relationships are, personal. That means keep the communication on a personal level. A text message is too impersonal, in my opinion. If you truly love your ex, tell them verbally. Leave the text messages for brief conversations after the two of you have gotten back together.